Themes VS. Topics

Every week for WTMFI Wednesdays, we ask you a series of 5+1 questions.

Each session’s questions are based on a variety of topics surrounding sexuality. While the topics dictate the content, themes dictate the overall structure of each session. For some themes, we will only focus on one topic, while other themes will focus on a variety of these topics. See a full list of all topics covered at the bottom of this page.

Below, you will find a list of each of themes and a short description and examples of questions that you can expect. Each of these questions are actual questions from our sessions so that you can familiarize yourself with our format.


Q&A | The 5 W’s | Have You Ever… | Would You Rather…| Should/Could/Would


In our Q&A theme, we ask you 5+1 questions on a mixture of topics related to sexuality.


  1. What was your first time having penetrative sex like?
  2. How old were you when you began watching porn?
  3. Do you think that gender is fixed or fluid?
  4. What’s your go-to masturbation fantasy?
  5. Is there a position that you use a lot during sex that you wish you didn’t?

BONUS: Let’s pretend you’ve woken up with the genitals of the opposite sex. What’s the one thing you do not want to have happen?

The 5 W’s

When we post The 5 W’s, we’re asking you Who, What, Where, When, Why – and as a bonus, How – with a specific topic in mind.


  1. Who was the first person you had sex with? (Don’t use real names, but describe the person to us)
  2. What was the sex like your first time?
  3. Where did you have sex your first time?
  4. When did you have sex your first time?
  5. Why did you decide to have sex your first time when you did?

BONUS: How did you feel about your first time afterwards? Now?

Have You Ever…

In Have You Ever…, we ask you 5 + 1 questions about all the things you have and maybe haven’t done and of course, always ponder whether you’d even want to!


  1. Have you ever given or received a rimjob?
  2. Have you ever been fisted vaginally? Anally?
  3. Have you ever gotten a cramp during sex?
  4. Have you ever used food during foreplay or sex?
  5. Have you ever masturbated in public?

BONUS: Have you ever recorded the audio of yourself orgasming? Would you?

Would You Rather…

In Would You Rather…, we give you 5 + 1 different sets of two options – sometimes fun and sometimes not so much. Then, we ask you which one you’d rather do and why.


  1. Would you rather lick someone’s toes OR someone’s fingers?
  2. Would you rather pull someone’s hair OR have your hair pulled?
  3. Would you rather have amazing sex infrequently OR mediocre sex infrequently?
  4. Would you rather listen to music during sex OR listen to TV during sex?
  5. Would you rather masturbating with lube OR without lube?

BONUS: Would you rather be paid to have sex in person OR be paid to have sex on camera?


With Should/Could/Would, we ask you to reveal your deepest thoughts, feelings and opinions on a variety of topics related to sexuality.


  1. Should you always use a condom?
  2. Could you write about your sexperiences? Would you?
  3. What would you do if you found out your partner was cheating on you?
  4. How should you broach the subject of sexuality with your kids?
  5. If you could grow a penis elsewhere on your body, where would you want it?

BONUS: Would you ever participate in a protest that dealt with your sexuality?